My mother-in-law is a very nice woman, but we’ve always had trouble finding things to bond over. As far as I can tell, she doesn’t have any hobbies. She cooks, cleans and watches TV. I’ve never seen her do anything else. A couple weeks ago she had to stay with us for two weeks for varicose vein surgery. Even recovering, she couldn’t stop herself from cooking, cleaning, and critiquing me doing the same. Because the things she’s good at I’m not, there’s not a lot of meeting ground there.
But a miracle occurred. While I was waiting with her for a follow-up appointment, I was sketching ideas for Elena’s wedding jacket, so I explained what I was doing and why. After I finished the first model she was astonished that I had made the model up from a picture I had created. Since she seemed interested, and was generally opposed to my plan to give up my pension-safe job to become a designer, I had her leaf through my sketchbook.
Suddenly I was receiving orders. I am now committed to making a skirt and a dress for her. I took her to the fabric market and let her pick out the fabrics. and measured her up. Now she’s all excited to have me making clothes up for her.
After taking the order, I was in my closet looking for what to wear to work and saw the blouse I had made for my pattern-making class last semester. I wasn’t really happy with it when I was done because we had to do a princess-cut, which is NOT flattering for me. It was also six weeks between taking the measurements and making the blouse, so it was also a bit large for me since I’d lost weight in the process.
But it’s a nice, heavy, soft silk and I love the cattail pattern, so I didn’t want to give it up. I pulled it out, though, and wouldn’t you know, it fits my mother-in-law perfectly. That’s the blouse she’s wearing in the pic above.
It looks slightly odd in the pic because she’s sitting and she’s got a red winter undershirt underneath, but she was so in love with it! After she took it off she petted it for a while and showed it off to her son.
So we’ve finally found something I could do that she respected (other than giving birth to her grandchildren). I’ll be sure to post pics as I make up her items.